Being childfree by choice: five women on why they decided not to have kids

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As part of the Guardian’s Childfree series, five women discuss why having children isn’t for them – and how others perceive them as a result. ‘There’s no wrong way to be a woman,’ says Sabrina, 25.
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28 COMMENTS

  1. Childfree women wont d!e alone, they will have their partner (if married/dating) friends, family by there side. Not having kids can teach you to be by yourself and not be dependent on your kids when they get older.

  2. I'm 41 and not a mother by choice. I've been called selfish many, many times. I've been told that my life would be pointless, that no one would take care of me when I'm old…like nursing homes are bursting with thankful sons and daughters 24/7. I realized that NOT having the desire was the #1 indicator. I'm proud if my choice, I honestly do not care what people tell me anymore. My happiness depends on something else.

  3. How hard is it for women to resist becoming a mother? Even though many women have talked about how they don't ever want to get pregnant, they often go back on these promises. Time and time again, we've seen women get to the stage in their life when suddenly they realize that they really, really want to become a mom. That's why you'll regret it when you're old and alone. Time waits for no-one!

  4. Life provides you experiences. The experience of living for yourself and in complete freedom is given for free to all of us. Everyone will experience the childless life. However, there is only one way of living the experience of having and raising children.

  5. How I love this comments section ❤

    I think those women who love and dream to get married and have children are the ones to take that path.Since when and why did marriage & children have became a ground rule for survival? Eventually this alone has caused a lot of stress for women around the world trapping her into everything but her one beautiful life!

  6. I have four sons all productive. All those of my generation who didn’t have children should be made to pay an extra tax to pay for my sons to having to cleans their arses when they’re unable to.
    Raising children is a massive massive massive (get the idea) undertaking.
    My children will be contributing when my childless compatriots will be dependent on all manner of things.
    It ain’t fair!!!!!!
    Capeesh MotherF#*%ers

  7. There is no financial, emotional, spiritual, logical, etc. reason for any couple to have more than two kids. I have yet to find a SINGLE person that can give me a legitimate reason according to their worldview what they would gain by having more than two kids. The reason is because anything more than two kids is irresponsible and selfish. The person that has 4/5/6/7+ kids is way more selfish and way more detrimental to society and the world as a whole than the person that has zero kids FACT.

  8. The reason I don't want to have kids is that I don't think I have enough patience, maturity, and wisdom to raise a kid. Making kids is not about having a baby. It's about raising a person, who has no clue about the world. It's not do you want a baby, its do you want to raise a person. The worst thing you wanna do is make an irresponsible, emotionally neglected child who has many issues. The baby phase only lasts a year. Think carefully before deciding to ruining a tiny being's life

  9. Women who are in their 20s dont have an opinion on not having kids. Talk to kidless women in their 40s, who have actually stuck by that position.

    This whole video is bunk

  10. Making a decent place for children to grow and develop properly is bigger than just getting married and expecting one man to protect and provide money…Our problems run waaay deeper that…This system was designed for most people to struggle and fall short…The top 1percent never earned anything and history should have taught you this by now…Thats if they even teach history anymore…You know…They wouldnt want to offend anybodies children right…

  11. when you got cash to take care of your grandchildren than only you should plan have kids. i dont want kids I'm middle class person who cant afford in this stressful society

  12. Ladies,no,stop this self deception,this path to self annihilation,this emptiness.
    Have your young,meet your destiny,know the future,have your babies…nothing else counts much.

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